The fact is, if life is not going the way you want it and you aren’t doing anything about it, then you need to CHANGE!
It is a fact that everyone is resistant to change. By my logic, why move out of your comfort zone and change? And there is no point to change for the sake of it. You would only need to change something, if it needs changing.
So… Given this scenario, your life is not going how you wanted. You’ve applied to several jobs and not had much feedback. Your health is not what it should be. Your relationship is breaking down. So you need some change and you need to do something.
There’s a saying… “Good things happen to those who wait”. Well… This is a load of shit. Trust me from personal experience. I used to live by this saying, I used to wait for things to get good. Yes, sometimes good things do happen to those who wait but do you know what’s better? … “Good things happen to those who
wait, get up and do something about it”.
By doing this, you are being proactive. You are in control of how you organise your time. And when you do get that “Good thing”, you’ll get a bunch of satisfaction from your perseverance and hard work. By doing this, you are also being motivated to get what you want.
However, if you don’t want change and you’re still doing bad then, you need to wake up. Blinded by your stubbornness and deluded by denial! Where will that get you?… The answer is, further in the shit. If you do not want to change, then change will not come, and you will be stuck.
Sure, maybe changes can be risky, but it may pull off. And you will benefit. It’s okay to be afraid of changes, but don’t disregard them completely.
Rant and Rave over!
ta ta for now